Ever since my oldest could talk, he was sharing the gospel.
It wasn’t something we taught him and I often wondered how it happened ~smiles~ but then I realized he was simply saying a handful of phrases that my husband and I constantly shared with others ourselves. Things like, “Have you ever heard of Jesus before?” “Do you believe in God?” and “God exists, He really does!”
As missionaries in a communist, atheist country, we always sought to open spiritual conversations with everyone we could. Sharing Jesus was a way of life.
Then God blessed us with 3 children in 23 months and things changed. Suddenly, I was at home…ALOT. And my girls weren’t getting the exposure to sharing Jesus that my son had. They weren’t seeing me be missional and I missed it!
What to do?
It’s a good question. For stay at home moms who may have limited contact with the lost, how can we purposefully teach our children to share Jesus?
As I asked God what I could do, He gave me the idea of “Tuesday Tea.” This is where my girls and I prepared a special tea with snacks and invited a guest of honor ~ a neighbor who did not know Jesus.
This idea was easy peasy because what neighbor wants to turn down a child’s invitation?! And they came to us! Now that we are in the states on furlough, I am finding this an excellent way to reach out to other SAHMs in our neighborhood.
~ Start by making a list of names or addresses of people on your street, neighborhood, or in your community. Add names of unsaved friends and family members as well. It doesn’t have to be many to start with, just reach out.
~ Keep adding names to your “Blessing List” as you meet new people or see neighbors at the park, in the yard, etc.
~ Plan the “menu” for your first Tea Time and make invitations. We do our tea time from 10:00 – 10:30am. The short time is on purpose, so our guests know this won’t drag out.
Involving the Children:
~ Get your kids excited by telling them you want to bless others together. They can help by selecting the special guest, making invitations, helping deliver them, baking the goodies, selecting the menu, setting the table, serving the guests, dressing up, preparing a story or scripture, ect.
~ Make it regular. Pick a day of the week so your kids can look forward to this special day. You can have your tea parties weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly to work around family schedules. Build anticipation by talking about it in between parties.
~ Ask your kids for input. They will come up with some great ideas that will probably be the best of all 🙂
Making it Evangelistic:
~A super easy way to turn the tea party to Christ is to simply tell your guest upon arrival, “We would like to make you feel special and bless you today while you are here. Is there any specific way we can pray for you?”
~You can make scriptures that bless into placemats or simply write them on cards and leave them on top of the tea saucers.
~Have the children sing a song or an older child read a short Bible story.
~Be prepared to share your testimony. Some people don’t know how to “jump into” their testimony, so here are some openings you can use: “I wouldn’t be the person I am without Jesus. Here is how He has changed my life…”
Or, “Jesus is the best thing that has happened to me! Let me tell you what happened…”
Or, “I haven’t always been the person I am today. I used to …. until I met Jesus…”
Most importantly, have fun!
Sharing Jesus is one of the “funnest” things there is! Don’t be discouraged if things don’t go exactly as planned; instead, begin by praying before the guests arrive, committing the time and effort as a love offering to the Lord. Then enjoy the ride, however it turns out! He will accept your gift and direct your paths.
Doing a few simple things at each tea party, like praying for your guests and telling them Jesus loves them, will help your child learn the basics of sharing Jesus and starting spiritual dialogue.
Part of the legacy I want to leave my children is serving others and sharing Christ. The tea party does both. Who knew that something so simple could leave such a legacy?
Care to join in? If you have an “EV Tea,” let us know how it goes! For more ideas and inspiration, check out <a href=”Tea Parties with a Purpose: 10 Simple and Fun Party Ideas for Kids of All Ages“>by Bobbie Wolgemuth.
I’m praying for lots of Tea Parties this month 🙂
By Arabah Joy, Arabah