Just twiddling our thumbs. (+ give-away)

by Emily Rose Brookshire on June 11, 2010 in Faithfulness, Giveaways

Twiddling Thumbs

The mental image of “stay-at-home daughters” is usually of a girl . . .

Who is at home twiddling her thumbs while waiting, just waiting, for her Prince Charming to come and sweep her off her feet. She has nothing better to do than clean the house. Oh, and she can cook, too. What in the world does she do with all that free time? I mean really, all she’s capable of doing now is just waiting for her Prince Charming . . . right?

There’s a lot more to being a stay-at-home daughter than just cooking and cleaning. But because that’s the only thing the world thinks we’re doing, no wonder we seem so strange.

The majority of the stay-at-home daughters that I have met are productive, creative, resourceful, and in many cases are entrepreneurs. They have a vision and a desire to glorify the Lord in the area where He has sovereignly placed them by serving in the home.

Because we are at home, we are able to spend time preparing for the future, as well as being productive daughters at home.

We are able to spend time studying, learning how to change a tire, helping young mothers with their workload, starting a business, writing books, making baskets, serving the elderly, fixing window screens, cooking, understanding nutrition, sharing with others what we have learned, practicing hospitality, assisting our mothers, doing secretary work for our fathers, encouraging our siblings, etc. – just to name a few.

(I’m not saying a daughter who is away from home most of the time cannot do these things, but I think it would be most taxing to juggle the above plus school, job, etc.)

Rather than wasting my time idly sitting by, I desire to be a productive daughter who is passionate about today and preparing for the future. No, it’s not always easy, but by God’s grace I can glorify Him through the work of my hands as I seek to continue to learn, grow, and serve!

Blessings,
Emily Rose @ Simply Vintagegirl

And now for the give-away!

So Much More was written by Anna Sofia & Elizabeth Botkin, fellow stay-at-home daughters. The Lord has used their book mightily and it has had an amazing impact on thousands of daughters around the world. So Much More is a wonderful book for daughters of all ages, as it gives biblical and practical advice on being daughters, serving our families, fighting sin, honoring our parents, and thriving in our God-given roles!

So Much More by Anna Sofia and Elizabeth Botkin

Strength & Dignity for DaughtersWe are giving a copy of this wonderful book away to one of our readers! Also in the bundle will be two CD’s with audio from two important talks Anna Sofia & Elizabeth have given. The first is called Strength and Dignity for Daughters, which speaks on how a daughter can be a joy to her father and a tremendous help in his work, while looking to him as her hero. What Our Father Taught Us About BoysThe second is called, What Our Father Taught Us About Boys. In this talk they give practical advice on navigating the tricky waters of relationships with boys, and how these relationships, properly conducted, can be edifying and strengthening. This is one of my favorite talks by them, as they share about treating boys not as possible suitors (believe me, even three-year-olds think that way, because I was one of them!), but as brothers in Christ.

Leave a comment to enter the giveaway! (For extra entries you can post about this giveaway on a blog, twitter, facebook, etc., just be sure to leave a separate comment for each entry!) Give-away closes Wednesday, June 16th at 8pm EST.

Western Conservatory Father's Day SaleP.S. Western Conservatory of the Arts and Sciences is having a grand Father’s Day Sale, go and check out the wonderful and encouraging products they offer to bless your family as you seek the Lord in your lives!

Emily Rose Brookshire

Emily Rose was home-educated and is a work-at-home-daughter. She finds joy in serving her family and is very blessed to be taught by her wonderful mother in biblical womanhood and artful homemaking. A few of her interests include hospitality, photography, graphic and web design, studying history and theology, and cultural reformation. Emily Rose and her sister have created a line of historical paper dolls based on Christian women from history, the Daughters of His Story Paper Dolls as well as The Family Treasure Coloring Book. In November 2011, the Brookshire ladies began the Clementine Pattern Co., where they create and sell embroidery patterns. Emily Rose blogs at Simply Vintagegirl.

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Michelle June 17, 2010

Thank you for being willing to share your knowledge and wisdom. I have been married for 5 years and have a 3 yo daughter, 20 month old son and another daughter due in 10 weeks. I was raised by a very harsh self centered woman who was nothing near a proverbs 31 woman (more of a slothful feminist). I am a first generation christian (saved now not quite five years) desperately searching for Gods plan. This website and a few others that I stumbled upon (God is good) has begun to finaly help me understand the real womans role and give me direction in a very confusing world. Thanks again.

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Cathi June 18, 2010

I have been so encouraged by your articles that I receive in my email. I am raising 3 homemakers and one homemaker’s husband! I would love to win the Botkin sisters book and CD’s! Thank you for your ministry!

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Chrystina Swain June 18, 2010

WoW!! I am new to this site, I stumbled upon it the other day looking for homeschooling information as I am starting to homeschool my children. What wonderful resources we have at this age for helping produce divine beings God entrusted into our care. Thank you! I am on my way to check these out!!

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Madison June 18, 2010

I would love to win these for my hope chest… They are all so good!

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Michelle June 19, 2010

At 39, I realize there are so many things I never learned about being a girl. I’m learning…and hope to be a better example to the girls I’m surrounded by now.

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Stephanie June 21, 2010

I stumbled upon this site by accident and am loving it! I am not a writer, but am a voracious reader. Thanks to all of the ladies that write and encourage others with their wisdom.

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Laura June 22, 2010

Perfectly worded, Emily Rose!! <3 < 3 <3

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Glori W. June 23, 2010

When is the giveaway closed? We would like to know who won!! Of course, I already left my entry for it….thanks again for a great post!

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Kelly Boggus June 30, 2010

Hi Emily,
I completely agree with you on daughters staying at home. So Much More has changed my life in so many ways. It is such a great resource for many topics applicable to unmarried women. Thanks for promoting it. It is one of the favorites we sell on our courtship website :)
God bless you,
Kelly

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